1. What do I want?
2. What do I have?
3. What have I normally done/chosen in this situation?
4. What results has this produced?
5. Do I want the same thing again or something new/different?
6. What can I choose differently to give what I want?
With whatever we put out there (our thoughts, our choices), our reality is created. Therefore, what we will receive is determined by what we give... so you don't just get what you want, you give it.
7. Make the new (and better) choice!
"We are the ones who make a brighter day so let’s start giving."
- from We Are The World by Michael Jackson