It's not about winning. It's about living my life, it's about enjoying every second of it, and growing along the way. It's not about competing with other people, but about always becoming better than myself left over from yesterday, like that Hindu proverb says.
What would be the point of having a blessing feel like a curse? Society has taught us that we need drama and why me's to feel like we care enough about something, as if feeling extra pressure somehow confirms that we think something's important. But is this really necessary? Is this approach even smart at all?
No. It's about making it extra pleasant for myself, about flowing with life, about having fun while being me. Like my Strawberry Shortcake lunchbox says, "Life is delicious." I shall support this, embody it, transmit it, and remember it however many times I need to.