No matter who you are or what you have done, there's always a positive aspect to you, some good you have done, some smile you have shared, some love you have felt.
Sometimes, when we are offended, we are too quick to focus only on the other's faults in such a way that it becomes a wall that does not permit you to see beyond and connect with and appreciate all the good stuff inside.
Well, let me ask you something, ARE YOU PERFECT? Would you like it if someone you care about only saw your flaws and lost all ability to appreciate and love and admire you? I'm sure we all want to be forgiven and make up for our mistakes and be given the chance to make things right again most of the time.
So, let's try to remember this when we are going to evaluate someone else. One thing is to be realistic and learn the lessons to prevent specific mistakes from being unnecessarily repeated, and another thing is to close all doors, create a storm and only see the night when the sun is shining in your beautiful face.